
Drawn from Chapter 4: Listening Before Meaning · 5 min read
Listening Before You Make Meaning
We are meaning-makers. The moment something shifts, we want to know why. We rush to interpret the closed door, the delay, the new desire. But meaning assigned too quickly can drown out what God is actually saying.
The discipline of slowing down
Listening requires space. It asks us to sit with a question longer than feels comfortable — to resist filling silence with conclusions.
Sometimes becoming looks like changing the way you understand something you have carried for years.
What listening can look like
Listening may be prayer without an agenda. It may be journaling without editing. It may be paying attention to what repeatedly stirs you in Scripture, in conversation, or in quiet moments.
Notice what returns. Notice what brings peace and what brings pressure. Over time, patterns emerge that a rushed interpretation would have missed.
A practice for this week
Each morning, write down one thing you sensed, noticed, or heard — without explaining it. At the end of the week, read it back. Let meaning arrive slowly, as truth tends to do.
From BLOOM: An Invitation to Becoming by Karyn Afari.